What I really wish that I could do for myself...

*Realize that I need to quit placing my self worth on the pasts of others.
*Quit trying to outdo people that I have never met.
*Love my BF for what he is not how I think he should be.
*Realize that I am hypercritical of myself & my loved ones.
*My loved ones will never be able to live up to the expectations that I place on them.
*To live in the now, to enjoy it and quit micro-managing my future
*To quit worrying so much about my interpersonal relationships and focus on my financial goals.
*To quit trying to win a popularity contest that I have created in my head.
*To stop going above and beyond for others and expecting them to do the same in turn. It should be done selflessly.